It is true that sex is very important to a relationship as it's the main expression of love to your partner. This could be one of the basis but not the main basis for looking for longer lasting relationships. Happiness in bed does not mean happiness and expressive security during your marriage life or relationship. Think of the things that may occur to you in the future such as inability to fulfill sexual obligations, accidents, illness, and other main events that may take you from fulfilling the bed happiness responsibility. Will your partner stay to take care and love you when that time comes?
Relationships should have more than sexual satisfaction if you are really looking for something that will last until you grow old. Respect, Love, commitment and compatibility are very important factors to consider. No man or woman would want to have a partner who has every possibility to create extra marital affair later on because that will be destructive, very hurting and a headache for filing divorce papers.
In relationships sex is important but should not be a matter of priority. Choose the person who will love you more and stay with you until you grow old. If you want to be happier and fulfilled, seek more than the physical and sexual satisfaction. Learn to value more the person and emotional fulfillment. Life is short and true love that will stay with you through thick and thin is difficult to find.
Ok now women, here's some advice for you. Believe it or not men do have feelings. I know they do not show it, and may never show it, but there is hope. As long as you remember they still have them you are way ahead of the game. I know there are some men out there that do show their feelings and good for them, but for most of us, we do not. But thanks to some long overdue culture changes we are starting, so do not abuse the fact that the only feelings we show are anger by intentionally making us angry. If you're that starved for some feelings from your man, talk to him.
Anyway, back to the topic of men's feelings. We do get hurt ladies and sometimes hurt deeply by your actions. We do not say it, we do not get the sad hound dog look, but we do. Another act of relationship advice is never laugh at your man. Laugh with him yes but at him no. You've seen the overprotective mother type, the ones that their kids do no wrong? Well there's nothing wrong with you being that overprotective of your man. In fact, we like it. We like it more. If we screw up, even if it is spilling the spaghetti, do not laugh at us, protect us. Say those little words that will make us feel good. Tell us it is ok, tell us do not worry about it, no harm done, all those little things you tell little boys right before they cry, because even if we're now men, we're closer to that little boy than you think.
The 1st thing to understand is that times have changed. Sex no longer means that you're intended to be married and will spend the balance of your life with someone. If you choose to wait till marriage that is the decision you make for yourself and not one that society makes for you. This could be both a good and a bad thing, because having sex too soon could destroy a relationship or it can start a relationship where one was not wanted.
What you really would like to set boundaries and discuss with your partner what having sex will mean. For most men sex and relationships are 2 entirely different things and one never has to depend on the presence of the other. But you should be sure to talk with your partner about why you've decided to wait or the fact that simply because you've decided to have sex doesn't mean that you are in a relationship.
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