A lot of people have several answers to this simple question but somehow they all come to a similar fact and i.e. it's very essential to have sex for a healthy relationship. It's quite natural to get bored with a person with whom you are living for a longer time and hence you try to escape from there. But there could be several a lots of solutions to it than escaping away.
People often Miss Judge the strength of a human relationship and therefore they give much lower time to it then they should actually give it. When we start our relationship then everything seems perfect to us, everything looks natural to us. It gives us a feeling that we're special, therefore so much happiness has been bestowed upon us by the almighty but we're wrong. We misjudge the strength of our relationship and believe that it's rock hard. We live in an illusion of our future and this illusion is the main factor of our fall. It's not possible to completely eradicate this illusion but we can cope with it.
It's quite natural for any human to desire something from their partner unconditionally. We think they should do some particular work without saying, occasionally it happens while most of the times it doesn't. We feel cheated and we think that we have made a wrong decision about ourselves. Right from this moment we enter another path altogether which is dangerous. Complete relationship needs is honesty and without this it's doomed to fail.
We're never honest about our partner also to ourselves, when the illusion starts giving way to the truth we're unable to accept that. We think that it's a lie and that our partner has cheated from us. But is it really true? Who's cheating whom? Most relationships fall not because of the unworthiness of our partner but our lack of coping with the truth. At this moment the phenomenon of sex enters into a relationship which is very necessary for its survival. Sex and relationship continue together and this is because of the truth that both are complementary. They can't survive alone rather they're to go along one another. Hence in every relationship right place should be given to sex and this should never be ignored.
Just Do It: The Health Benefits of Sex
We often think that something that feels good can't possibly be good for us. Now it's time to think again.
Sex in a loving, intimate relationship has numerous health benefits. In women, for example, the sexual act triggers the release of oxytocin. Oxytocin promotes feelings of affection and triggers that nurturing instinct. In men, sex encourages the flow of testosterone, which strengthens bones and muscles and helps transport DHEA, a hormone that might be important in the function of the immune system.
Paul Pearsall, Ph.D., author of Super immunity: Master Your Emotions and Improve your Health, also maintains that sex in a loving relationship helps the immune system by increasing the flow of certain chemicals in the body.
Hugh O Neill, editor of Men's Health magazine, recently listed some health benefits of sex, also. Regular sex is regular exercise and has similar benefits, including improved cholesterol levels and increased circulation. Men's Health also reported that men who have sex at least three times each week may have a decreased risk of developing prostate problems.
Sex, like exercise, releases endorphins. Endorphin contributes to the runners high and diminishes pain levels.
An active sex life may help us live longer, too. Dr. David Weeks, a clinical neurophysiologist at Royal Edinburgh Hospital in Scotland conducted a study of 3,500 people ranging in age from 18 to 102. Weeks concluded that sex actually slows the aging process.
As a matter of fact, these studies indicate that intimacy plays a key role in the health benefits of sex. A promiscuous sexual relationship may actually produce an opposite effect by introducing a sense of anxiety and fear. And sexually transmitted diseases, certainly, carry no health benefits.
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