It is of no consolation if you are suffering from premature ejaculation to know that this is a very common male sexual problem affecting sexually active men. This is a condition when a man ejaculates too soon or before his sexual partner reaches her climax.
The male orgasm or climax is achieved when there is the discharge seminal fluid from the penis during copulation. In men with premature ejaculation, this happens too quickly causing neither partner to enjoy making love in a satisfying manner. The man is dissatisfied because he cannot have the pleasurable sensations of sex for a longer period and the female partner is dissatisfied because before she reaches at her sexual peak, the game is over.
Previously, premature ejaculation was loosely defined as men who ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in a sexual contact. However, this definition is now considered as defunct because it is now thought that about 50% men ejaculate within this time frame.
There are many reasons for this unfortunate male syndrome. For younger men who are having sex for the first time, there could be so much sexual excitement that they climaxed prematurely. It is also thought that some men may be having sex secretly and thus there is a need for them to ejaculate quickly and soon this developed into a habit.
Men suffering from medical conditions such as diabetes may also be afflicted by premature ejaculation or worse, erectile dysfunction. Mental stress and pressures can also contribute to this problem. Many smokers and certain medical drug users and abusers are also known to ejaculate prematurely.
One of the common techniques used to prevent or even stop premature ejaculation is the 'squeeze'. Upon sexual arousal and the sperm discharge is just about to happen, the glands or the penile head is being squeezed. This prevents the sperm from being ejaculated and the penis becomes limp as the blood gets disgorged from it.
After sqeezing for a minute or so, the man will try to get an erection again and the penis is again squeezed when he is about to ejaculate. By doing this, the sexual act is prolonged to the satisfaction of both partners.
Another way to prevent premature ejaculation is the need to be stress free when having sex. The man must focus on just the act and not think of any other things. By using this focused mind control method, the man can thus delay his climax.
Another treatment to prevent early climax is for the man to masturbate just before the having actual sex with his partner. This is because since an ejaculation has already occurred when he was masturbating, it will take a longer time for him to ejaculate again.
Some men consume alcohol to prevent themselves from hitting an orgasm too early. This is because alcohol numbs the nerves and so it can delay the man's climax. However, it must be made clear that whatever it is, the fact remains that alcohol is harmful to health and may also lead to erectile dysfunction if abused.
So if you are a victim of premature ejaculation, try out some of the above treatments to see if it works for you so that you can enjoy your sex life in a more satisfying manner.
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