Our western society has developed such strangely conflicting views about appearance and its correlation with plastic surgery. The media constantly throws out the message that we should look perfect every day wherever we go, without a hair out of place.
But on the other hand, also tend to frown upon plastic surgery. If a celebrity even hints that they might have had Botox injections, it becomes front page news. That is why it can be so daunting when an average citizen considers surgical options to boost their confidence and improve the look of their body or face.
So many people disapprove that it seems impossible to tell colleagues or family members without stigma, yet they are bound to notice anyway! That is why I want to give you some advice about how to broach the subject with the people in your life.
First off, you should remember that there is no need to announce your intention before going through with the procedure, whatever it is. Your immediate family should know, of course, so they fully understand how their lives will change as you go through surgery and begin your recovery. Both children and spouse have the right to know your personal motivations.
In terms of teaching your children about your choice, you should point out to them that adults do all kinds of things to make themselves look and feel better. We work out, we dye our hair, we put on makeup, and we buy nice clothing. When you frame it this way, your children will be more likely to understand this without getting the wrong idea about body image and self-esteem.
Whenever a friend, co-worker, or acquaintance asks about the outcome of the procedure (which they will often notice, especially if the surgery was performed on the breasts, such as fat grafting or implants, or the face, as with a lift or Botox), and they will likely bring it up.
Only share what you feel comfortable sharing--e.g. "Yes, I had the procedure done by Dr. Jones. He is a skilled plastic surgeon, and I feel more confident now." Don't be pressured into revealing anything that you don't want to. Be polite, but firm when you don't want the conversation to continue. "Yes, I am very glad I had the procedure done, but it was a personal decision, and I prefer not to discuss it any further. Thank you."
Some people will be taken aback by your unwillingness to discuss it in depth, but don't sweat it. Continue to be cordial to those people, and they will realize it's not a slight against them. If your colleagues press the issue, don't hesitate to bring it up with your Human Resources department. You have the right to keep private things private!
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