You are suffering from premature ejaculation if you ejaculate before satisfying your partner or yourself. Unknown to many men, premature ejaculation is a common problem affecting most men from to time in their sex life.
This male sexual health problem is particularly common in the earlier part of relationships when sexual excitement, over enthusiasm, anxiety and over stimulation are more pronounced. Younger men who are just finding out about sexual relationships are also more prone to the condition because of their inexperience in managing their sexual performances.
Unlike erectile dysfunction or impotency, premature ejaculation is seldom caused by any physical disorder or medical conditions. It is more of a psychological issue. Many men suffer from the condition simply because of anxiety over his own sexual performances. Sometimes by just by being more relaxed and taking things more easily when having sex can eradicate the problem entirely.
Another way to avoid premature ejaculation is that when your arousal level is getting you closed to your climax, then do a mind flip to distract yourself. Think of something boring or subjects that are completely unrelated to sex like imagining yourself in a football stadium watching a game. This will bring your arousal level down and may stall your premature ejaculation.
Another method commonly used is that as you are approaching your climax during a sexual act, stop the act at once and pull yourself away. Do something else like going to the washroom and wash your face. When your arousal is lessened, you can go back and continue where you have left off. However do not wait too long to go back to your partner or do this too often as it may leave your partner frustrated.
There are also desensitizing creams you can apply on your penis head to desensitize it so that the sexual stimulation is blunted. Another method is to use thicker condoms or use two condoms instead of one for the same purpose.
Some men prefer to masturbate prior any sexual activities with their partners because after having the first ejaculation, it is more difficult to have another one so soon, however one of the most effective ways to treat premature ejaculation and may even cure it permanently is through hypnotherapy.
Your hypnotherapist will put you in a very relaxed state leaving you in a condition between awake and asleep. This is where your conscious mind and the critical mind is so relaxed that your therapist can suggest to your subconscious mind positive suggestions such as removing anxieties to keep your premature ejaculation at bay. Remember, premature ejaculations are usually caused by psychological conditions and not physical ones.
Unlike the other methods of getting rid of premature ejaculations which are just temporary solutions, using hypnosis can treat your underlying psychological issues causing your condition and because of the suggested new beliefs implanted in your subconscious mind, those issues which are the root of your condition can be eradicated permanently.
Once that is successful, you would have treated and cured your condition of premature ejaculation for good and you will be happily on your way to enjoy more satisfying sex for yourself and your partner.