I am in a community and at an age where many of my peers are married with young children. As I've sat gossiping with friends in that particular life stage, the subject of "wifely duties" has come up frequently, and I've been shocked and dismayed to discover that many women are averse to sexual encounters with their spouses!
The reason? Their expectation of pleasure is not being met, of course. This is something of an epidemic, so you might feel precisely the same way. When this condition is persistent, it's only natural that sex becomes a chore instead of a delight and a bonding experience. But you can change this with the right attitude and a few adjustments in your relationship. These tips can help you get started.
You have probably heard over and over how vital open communication is to the health of any relationship. We all know that the manly ego can be easily bruised when it comes to critiquing bedroom performance, but that doesn't mean you can't speak up for what you want--whether in or out of the sheets.
Most partners will accept gentle guidance during the act, and then be sure to lavish praise on him when he does what you ask. Studies show that men get more satisfaction from sex when they feel they've adequately pleased their partners. So he really does want to know!
Another way to couch it is to ask how YOU can do better, and then genuinely hear him out. Listen to his guidance graciously, and then take the opportunity to give him some gentle advice about what you like. If you feel somewhat inexperienced and don't KNOW what you like, then take the time to experiment. Run off to a hotel for a weekend or devote a lazy Saturday morning to intimate learning and teaching.
Don't be afraid to bring in outside help in the form of toys, which can include fun lubricants, flavored body dust, and female sexual enhancement, which can be topical or taken orally. The purpose of sexual enhancements is to increase blood flow to your female parts, which is responsible for arousal and climax.
It's important to recognize that many women don't have their pleasure center in the vagina, meaning they don't climax from intercourse alone. So don't get discouraged; instead, focus on learning about the role of the clitoris and touching yourself to find out what works for you.
I know that learning about some of these things can feel a little uncomfortable at times, but you need to get real about all these details. You DESERVE to enjoy intimacy with your partner, and it IS possible. So take control.
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