There are many different ways single parents can get help for their problems with drug and alcohol use. While being a single parent has its unique challenges, there are several programs that allow people to work around their job and home responsibilities while pursuing a lifestyle free of substance use issues. There are additional options for single parents with a responsible adult to help on a short-term basis.
Confidential
One problem that single parents may encounter when seeking help with drug or alcohol use problems is the fear that they may lose custody of the children if anyone finds out. Getting help for a problem may lead to custody-related issues if the person enters a drug treatment or alcohol rehab facility that works with insurance companies or receives government funding. The alcohol or drug rehab facility may release medical records or turn over paperwork and electronic files to third parties. Medical records can be subpoenaed for a court case if they are considered relevant. One way that this can be eliminated is for the single parent to seek help from a social education facility that adheres to the rule of complete confidentiality. A facility that does not provide medical treatment, does not receive government funding and does not work with insurance companies is not required to submit paperwork to any of these groups. As a result, only those parties the participant wishes to tell will know the location and purpose of the parent's absence.
Work
When someone manages to stay employed while having issues with drugs and alcohol, they may try very hard to keep their salary coming in while trying to straighten out their personal issues. Financial pressures can often be insurmountable for a single parent once the downslide begins. For this reason, it may not be helpful to attend an alcohol rehab facility, drug treatment center or alternative program that will require a long stay. One option is to have a reliable family member take care of the children for an extended vacation while they are seeking out help. Another option is to participate in an online at-home program which offers personalized instruction and classes. One-on-one help is available through videoconferencing, phone and email.
When a person is struggling with alcohol and drug use, they need help to change their lifestyle. When it is the single parent of children, there is added stress and responsibility. Seeking and getting help not only improves the single parent's situation, but it can do the same for the children.